So here it is, my long winded World Cup post. For those that don’t know, I was blessed with the opportunity to travel to South Africa to see a couple World Cup games and soak up the atmosphere in a country truly embracing the World Cup fever. It’s been a crazy last four of five days and here is an overview with pictures of videos of the experience.

After a long travel day I arrived Thursday afternoon in Johannesburg and was met by Brendan Vargas, a longtime friend who lives in Mozambique, and his buddy (now my buddy) Cornel, an Afrikaner who lives in Pretoria and let us stay at his place. We made the short trip to Cornel’s house, dropped off the bags, and quickly made it to a local bar/restaurant to watch the night match between Mexico and France. The night was pretty chill. We ordered some food, had a few brews and talked with the many visitors to the place. It was great to meet and talk to people from all over the world. Unfortunately I forgot to grab my camera before we left the house, but I was able to grab this photo with my phone of myself, an Afrikaner, and a Dutch supporter.

Friday was match day between the U.S. and Slovenia. We woke up late morning, grabbed some coffee, and met up with more of Brendan’s friends from Mozambique. We all made the drive into downtown Johannesburg and found our way towards the stadium (after making a stop to purchase a few vuvuzelas) just in time to watch Serbia close it out against Germany. Afterward we found our way to our seats. Here is a quick clip of the fan area outside the stadium before the game:



The seats were upper level, but had a surprisingly great view. The atmosphere inside the stadium was lively, although personally I think too many people wanted to sit down. What’s the deal folks? This is the World Cup!! American supporters far outnumbered the Slovenian supporters. Here is a clip of our view and the atmosphere right at kickoff.



As far as the game, what can I say? It was quite depressing going down 2-0, and so exciting to watch us come back. Just being there was far greater than I could portray through words. When the U.S. scored the second goal the stadium went nuts. When Landon Donovan lined up for a free kick that led to the (should have been) third goal, I decided to hit record on the camera…just in case. Glad I did. Here is the clip. If you listen closely you can hear me make a fool out of myself. Who cares.



Another clip towards the end of the match



After the game we all questioned what happened with the third goal. None of us knew, we still don’t. We then went back to Pretoria and went out to eat at an Italian restaurant and watched the England v. Algeria match. After that it was bed time.

Here are photos from throughout the day.

Saturday was another match day. This time in Pretoria and between Cameroon and Denmark. Although it wasn’t the United States, I was very excited to see the match because it involved an African nation and I wanted to see how the local supporters responded. I wasn’t disappointed, but more on that later. The match didn’t start until 8:30 at night however, so we had to kill some time. What better way to do it then head to the local college hot spot that was overrun with World Cup visitors? The place was packed with Denmark supporters “warming up” before the night match. There were also Dutch supporters, watching the early match, and then Ghanaian supporters showed up to watch their match with Japan. It was truly a great mix of people from around the world, all celebrating the game.

At one point I walked next door to a local market. While there I saw some performers busting a move. I thought it was pretty cool, so I got a quick clip of that.



Eventually, and entirely on our own two feet (surprisingly for some), we made it to the match. The stadium was within walking distance and although the weather was extremely cold (near freezing at night), it was fun to walk to a match with all the local supporters. The atmosphere was even crazier than the U.S. match, and the seats were incredible. We were about 15 rows back from the pitch and could easily make our way to the front, as you’ll see in a few of the pictures. Here is a video of the atmosphere inside the stadium.



In all honesty, one of the best parts of the trip was getting to know Cornel. He was an incredibly hospitable man, and his excitement was pure joy to watch. He kept telling us how he had never seen his country so excited and supportive of each other. Throughout the weekend he would walk up to random people and hug them and share in the excitement for the South African team. He had never watched a soccer match before, but he was sick with excitement for every match we went to. The match between Cameroon and Denmark was at the local stadium in his hometown. He told me he had been to the stadium over 100 times and had never seen it the way he did Saturday night.

At one point we made our way to the restrooms and decided to walk down by the pitch and pass by the front on our way out. On the way, he blew his vuvuzela and cheered with the Cameroon supporters who joined in the fun. On the way back, I told him to do it again, so I could get it on video. He did, but for some reason the Cameroon supporters weren’t as excited. Turns out Denmark just scored, we realized it after we got back to our seats. Oh well, the video is still fun to watch. If you watch to the end, you’ll see Brendan at T minus negative 5 minutes…



Unfortunately Cameroon lost (we were pulling for Cameroon, as was the majority of the crowd – except the Denmark fans in front of us). Here is another clip of the excitement in the stadium, taken as the match was coming to an end and Cameroon was threatening to tie it up. There are also some photos from the day.



Sunday was a much more relaxed day. I was introduced to the South African tradition of the “Braai”, which is essentially a backyard barbecue. Cornel’s neighbor put out a TV and we had friends over to enjoy the matches while we barbecued meat and enjoyed a relaxing afternoon. Here are pictures from the braai.

And that was pretty much it. The next day I woke up, went to the airport, and somehow managed to switch flights and avoid going to Lagos, Nigeria (evidently I needed a visa that I didn’t have). After 28 hours of traveling, I made it home (four hours before my bag). It was a complete blast, an experience that truly hasn’t sunk in yet. I am truly thankful to all that made it happen, especially my beautiful wife who not only let me blow our money by making the trip, but for smiling as I did. I kept saying it was a once in a lifetime experience. It probably will be, but a part of me hopes it wasn’t…

…One last thing…

I heard this song at least twenty times a day while I was there. It’s stuck in my head…

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“The heresy of individualism: thinking oneself a completely self-sufficient unit and asserting this imaginary ‘unity’ against all others. The affirmation of the self as simply ‘not the other.’ But when you seek to affirm your unity by denying that you have anything to do with anyone else, by negating everyone else in the universe until you come down to you: what is there left to affirm? Even if there were something to affirm, you would have no breath left with which to affirm it. The true way is just the opposite: the more I am able to affirm others, to say ‘yes’ to them in myself, by discovering them in myself and myself in them, the more real I am. I am fully real if my own heart says yes to everyone.“ Thomas Merton

In my Air Force career I have been fortunate to visit more than 30 countries. I have played soccer with the Turkish, sung Karaoke with the Japanese, and drunk Maté with the Uruguayans. If there is one thing I have learned from interacting with people from all over the world, it is this: we are all the same. Each of us desires companionship, love, respect, and acceptance. Most importantly, each of us is a child of God.

After reading the above Merton quote I was reminded of how much alike we really are. Individualism, and even more so ethnocentrism, is something that tears at the heart until it is unable to love anything but what is close and familiar. It is what fuels racism and violence…and ignorance. In the religious sense, individualism is a blindfold to truth and understanding, and unless we take it off we can never see what God has intended for us to learn and understand: that we are all the same, and that we all came from the same place: the hands of God.

So what then should our response be? I do not think it can be anything but what God has commanded us to do from the beginning. Love. Love your neighbor; love your enemy. Love those who look different; love those who worship different. I truly believe that a response of true love towards God’s creation would alleviate much of the individualism and ethnocentrism in society. It does not need to happen in the next blink of my eyes, but it can happen over time.

I suppose the trick would be to start small. We begin by loving our neighbor, the atheist. We begin by loving our co-worker, the Jew, or our classmate, the Muslim. We love them not because we understand them, but because they are God’s creation.

And then we listen. We listen to their stories; we listen to their beliefs. We listen for what we share rather than what we do not understand. I think we would be surprised by what we would learn if we listened. If we listen and love, as God loves, we can see that we come from the same place, and need the same thing to survive.

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Catcher in the Rye

Currently Reading: The Catcher in the Rye by JD Salinger.

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Spent this last weekend in Asheville, North Carolina. Steph and I were both looking forward to taking pictures, especially of the Biltmore Estate and house, but unfortunately the camera decided to stop working just as we arrived. This is the only picture we could get.

We did get a few others of us goofing around the night before. Click here to see those.

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